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Erotic massage is an excellent method to relax, connect and explore pleasure which has a lover or intimate friend. On the way of Tantra, we like uniting to honor and celebrate the body like a temple of enjoyment. This experience will allow you to explore erotic energy in new ways which is a great prelude to lovemaking. Learn six advantages of erotic oil massage.


Preparation

Create a warm, quiet, comfortable place where you defintely won't be disturbed for the next Two hours. Be sure all phones are switched off. Light some candles and hang on some relaxing, romantic music.

The guts Salutation

Commence with the Heart Salutation. It's an ancient tantric practice for acknowledging the Divine in each other while you access sacred time. Sit across from a partner and search to their eyes. Maintain eye-to-eye contact through the entire other process. Extend your arms towards earth, palms together. Inhale and, keeping them together, take the hands on your heart. Exhale, because you bow forward and acknowledge the Divine in each other. Inhale, when you straighten back up. Finally, exhale while you enable your hands to revisit the starting position, pointed towards earth.

The Bubble

The Bubble calls you into present moment awareness and creates a secure space in order to offer an erotic massage. Produce a bubble around you along with your partner together with your arms so that it surrounds the two of you. Remove things from the bubble which don't serve this method (the past, distractions, anger, worry, etc.) Try this which has a gesture, like physically removing an item, while stating out-loud what you are removing. Next, bring things to your bubble that will transform your connection (Love, willingness, Presence, trust etc.) Once more, use gestures and spoken words. The following is two examples:

"I release the past."

" I speak to passion."

Share Your Desires, Fears and Boundaries

When the bubble is produced, share your desires, fears and boundaries related to giving and/or receiving an erotic massage. One person speaks even though the other person listens, without judgment or commentary. Then, switch roles. Here is a good example:

"My desire would be to stay connect to erotic energy."

"My fear is always that I'll fall asleep and you will feel hurt or disappointed."

"My boundary is finish this practice by at 11 pm."

Healthy Boundaries

People often imagine boundaries as walls. Healthy boundaries have been bridges that bring people together. Intimacy arises when healthy boundaries are honored. You are feeling safe, are open and offer. Boundaries can adjust, so check-in periodically to see the way you 're feeling. In case your boundary changed, educate partner. Please, a low-cost these phones read the mind.